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Fear…Does it Rule Us or Do We Conquer it??

Once again it seems that I have not blogged in awhile.  Since the move to the new place my words have gone more inward or to a very small group of people more so than outward…but I know that my blog needs some words.  So as I walked on the beach tonight, I thought about some of the incredible things that I have experienced over the last couple of weeks. 

Let me say first, that there are days when I choose to live my life, and others where I seem to be in fear.  I just recently met a little boy who was very healthy 3 months ago, and was struck down by some strange illness…I was so very grateful to get to meet this little boy who taught me that you fight for what is yours…he fought for his life and will continue…but they say within 6 months to a year he will be back to completely healthy!!  Yes he made a choice to live his life and face fear.  I also recently met a kind gentleman who had been in remission for 17 years but is now battling again that awful disease that will take more of us than any other…he has chosen to treat this alternatively and knows he is in for the fight of his life this time…but he to is choosing to live his life and deal with fears.  I was honored to meet him and his wife who stands by his side and agrees with his choices, allowing him to make the decisions that will untimately effect both of them. 

Then as I walked the beach tonight, I thought about a senario that has been with me for 16 years…something I have not closed the chapter on, used as a crutch, not faced.  I walked  and  wondered if I would have the courage to pull the trigger and face my fears…possibly having to close the chapter and not having the crutch anymore.  I have pulled the trigger on so many things…this is just one more of those and yet this one seems to stop me dead in my tracks.  Well when I came home I was given a sign, a great sign…a call form a friend out of the blue with the words that apparantly I had forgotten…or needed to hear.  So needless to say I am pulling this trigger to move forward and to face or conquer this fear….

I have chosen a bright pink Turquoise and candy jade necklace to show with this blog (not yet on the site, but feel free to contact me if you want more info).  Turquoise represents our connection to all that is as well as protection and recieving while the jade brings about prosperity and works on the heart chakra…and of course the Pink…is all about the heart…the heart knows that you need to face your fears and live and love your life!!  many hugs with much love to all…

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Fortune and Gratitudes…

For the last couple of days I have had difficulty figuring out just exactly what I would write about.  The hoopla of me turning 50 is now past and I am in the throws of the number.  In just a few short weeks I was  re-introduced to ego, vanity, self doubt, and trust.  These are things that we work on understanding and then with all of our might let go of.  Well some of us do anyway.  While it was awesome to be the center of attention, the cold hard truth is that I am now 50.  My life doesn’t look like I had planned…oops I forgot we shouldn’t steer, because when we do…we get reminded and there goes ego.  The vanity was not so easy to re-let go of.   Not caring what people think…that is a bit tougher, being an Aquarian, I have always been a peace maker…well I am but not so much anymore.   I am happier than I have been in forever…and we have to be comfortable with who we are even if it doesn’t look like we thought it would.  Self-doubt, don’t we all have it at some point in our lives, then we get reminded of something that we did to help someone else…or to make someone happy or make them smile or something that allows them to receive…in someway we are fulfilling what it is we came here to do.  While we might not understand it, just know that you are on the right road and just continue it as long as you are true to you!!  So self doubt…see ya!!  Last but not least trust…the toughest, but yet the easiest…trust…do you trust enough??  I have asked for trust and it is coming back to me is spades…and I am grateful for all the teachers that are helping to remind me of this trust…I am so very grateful, and I have trust.   Being able to remember these things, letting to of them and having a clean slate is part of what this 50 is about!!  I am in fortune and gratitude for all that is occuring.  I no longer wonder…I  live in joy, bliss and trust…with much to be grateful for everyday!!

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Journeys and friends…

The last week has been an interesting one to say the least…and we are only in the second week of the year.  I can’t wait to see what will occur through out the rest of 2011 if this is the start!! Personal growth is on the rise for so many of my close friend as well as myself.  It is really amazing to watch and be apart of, and let me say right from the start how grateful I am to be apart of these wonderful journeys!! I have seen tears this week, giddiness this week, elation this week and some of my own which included dealing with ugly issues that I thought I had resolved.  Whew!!  I am grateful for the person who played the role in making them come to the top for me…because one of the things I myself figured out was when one from so deep comes to the surface, it could only have been helped along by someone so close to you.  Someone who deeply cares and will love you unconditionally no matter how icky it gets.  All of that being said, when you do deal with one of those issues and you get through it, the other side is one of peace.  And in honesty, aren’t we really all looking for peace of some sort…

As 49 young years comes to a close…I am amazed at all of the lovely lesson and gifts that are presenting themselves.  I look forward to seeing how amazing a year my 50 will be!!  To those of you not yet on a journey, trust me…it is on it’s way…so just smile and be grateful, ask for grace and ease and most importantly have your close friends there so you can all share in it together remembering that no two journeys will look exactly alike!!  Many hugs and much love to all…~Randi

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Resolutions and regrets…

With most of the December holidays behind us, many of us are now moving towards the New Year.  I say many of us, because while most of us recognize January 1st as the beginning of the New Year many have New Year celebrations at other times of the year because of their religious beliefs.  No matter when you celebrate your New Year it comes with the thoughts of the year in passing…the changes, the challenges, the gifts, the people that are still in your life…and those that have left our lives for what ever reason.  The things you wished you had done, the accomplishments that you did get done, the things you wished you had said to that someone special or the things that you bit your tongue and walked away from. 

Regrets and resolutions…I have no regrets over the past year, and a great deal has changed for me.  There have been challanges, gifts, hurts and loves…but through it all I feel as though I have grown.  I have my list of resolutions started for January 1st, but then I always seem to add resolutions, usually  as my year passes I seem to have more and more to come and work on.   One of my big resolutions for this year will be to hold everyone I know and love in their highest and best light!!  For no matter what we think we see, we should not do anything but wish them to be the best they can be…and wish them goodness to be with them on what ever path they choose to take.  I choose a tiger iron and garnet bracelet to feature with this article…a very grounding bracelet that will help anyone to keep to their resolutions…many hugs with much love to all…~Randi

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Walking, calm the beach…

 While walking on the beach yesterday, I had so many thoughts running through my head…nothing uncommon being an Aquarian.  The one thing that I did know was that being on the beach with my feet in the sand was calming and grounding.   I spent time focused on the water and watching the waves as they came in and out as well as the sparkle of the sun shinning brightly on the water.  There was certainly a peace out there, a peace that I was grateful to experience.   I noticed we all seem to be in a state of confusion/chaos at the holiday season…and I really don’t understand why?!   If we look at what this is really all about…it’s about being with family and friends, but then shouldn’t we do that everyday?  Peace and calm and harmony, it’s what we should all strive for.  We can find that peace and calm anywhere, we just have to look for it instead of pushing it away.  I hope that we can all find some peace and harmony this season, and be grateful for our love ones, whether they are our family or our extended family. What I do know is that we should laugh as much as we can while we can, live for every moment is precious and love, yep the one that gets us hurt…well love with open abandon to everyone that matters to you!!   many hugs with much love to all…~Randi

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